On my birthday, June 19th, I taught a couple of classes and then headed out with Seven to meet up with her mother at a restaurant near our apartment to eat long noodles! The last time I ate at this restaurant we were celebrating Seven's mother's birthday! You know....I don't even know her Chinese name. I just call her "Mama" though she's not that much older than me. They ordered up a wonderful array of dishes!
Wow! The big bowl with the two egg patties on top is mine! We also had roasted pork (though, as you can see, there's only one stick left! ha) and shrimp with cashews, cucumbers and carrots. I am DEFINITELY going to cook dishes with cucumbers when I return. I told Seven's mother how we never eat cucumbers hot and cooked in dishes in the States (not normally, at least) and that usually they are just included in cold salads. Here in China, there are all kinds of hot dishes that include cut-up cucumbers. I quickly got over my "Huh?" attitude and now I LOVE warm cucumbers cooked in delicious dishes!
This is "Mama." She's great. With Seven's translating help, we enjoy conversing. On this night, she said, "Oh, Teresa, I don't want you to leave." Awww... She's a true "mother" who feels free to impart her motherly wisdom and it's always good advice. She and Seven are very close as they lost their husband and father many years ago. I have a LOT of respect for Mama. She encourages me to take the bus instead of taxi's. This is good advice. :)
After dinner, we walked down the street together to the bus stop (yep....the bus, not a taxi) where I would take the 851 for the 15 minute ride to my apartment. Two young Chinese guys were walking towards us and as they passed one of them said, under his breath, "Oh my god!" ha You see...I'm very big and tall and that always attracts lots of attention. :) I quickly turned around and much to the amusement of Seven and Mama, yelled (in English, of course), "I heard that! I can always lose weight! What are you going to do about your face!" ha ha Okay...it was only very funny to me!
So fast forward to this past Saturday when I'd be teaching 3 long classes of wonderful Chinese teenagers.....all of whom (except for a couple) forgot about my birthday even though I reminded them at last week's class and told them I wanted them to each make me a card (and, oh yeah, include 500 RMB in each card...which they thought was very funny as that's about $75).
However, the wonderful things they wrote on the whiteboard during a break was just as special to me as cards filled with 500 RMB! ha I must add, however, that it was the girls who wrote these messages, not the boys!
L to R, Cissy, Helen and Ealian....my Happy Birthday whiteboard creators.
L to R, Chris, Vincent and Ray....my slacker boys! ha Teenagers across the world...same, same same! ha Gotta LOVE Chris' face! Love them all!
This is Gogoanne (sometimes we just call her Anne), our newest local teacher! She was so surprised that we had arranged a birthday cake for her (June 20th)! She started crying so it took a few minutes before I could get this photo without tears. This incredible "cheesecake cake" was made by Wendy, who made my incredible birthday cake with M&M flowers! Wendy now realizes that she's becoming the "birthday cake baking teacher!" It was so sweet to see such genuine appreciation from Gogoanne!
L to R, Simone, Gogoanne and Ngachi (pronounced Na-Chi). Ngachi is our newest foreign teacher. She's American and from Maine! Her parents are Chinese and I have no doubt she's going to make a wonderful addition to our teaching family. She's also a newlywed as she recently married the love of her life, a Beijinger! We now have American teachers from Tennessee, Florida, California and Maine! What a diverse slice of Americana!
My last class of the day on Saturdays is my most advanced English speakers. They're a handful! ha Two of them presented me with wonderful birthday gifts (a beautiful beaded scarf and a funky little pencil holder that I will just have to post photos of later, both of which I adore). So on the break I challenged them to draw "birthday" pictures on the whiteboard. They weren't as creative as my morning class but it was appreciated just as much! ha
I should probably add that on the previous photo of the whiteboard creation....the girls thought I was 47.....I am, in fact, now 48! Sigh..... So on this day, I had promised the class that I'd provide pizza and drinks for them because I had lost a bet. I bet one of my students, Linda, that I'd lose a LOT of weight by June of this year and if I did, she would have to eat a raw onion (she HATES onions!). She was very wise to take that bet because if I lost...I was to buy them ALL something (hence, the pizza). I definitely lost the bet! ha So pizza and drinks it was! ha I gotta quit making bets with my students!
George!
Nicole! (after this class, I would be going with Nicole and her mother, my friend, Jeanette, to a great dinner at a Ukranian restaurant....but that's another post!)
L to R, Nina and Landy! BFF's? You bet. Check out their identical arm positions! ha
Beautiful Cathy!
We moved to the "Activity Room" (no carpet, hardwood floors) for pizza eating while viewing a movie Nicole had brought starring Zach Efron!
They were very "into" the movie, even though they were only able to see a third of the movie! I can guarantee you they'll beg me to see the rest next week. And....I might give in. If I do....then they know they'll have to engage in a discussion in English about the movie. These kids have learned SO MUCH by having to "discuss" different topics. Their oral English has improved greatly through discussion. Doing boring (did I say boring?) grammar exercises is something they HATE! ha So I've taken a unique approach with this particular advanced class. I believe I could write a great plan for teaching Chinese teenagers good English by watching movies and such in English and then having them voice their opinions and answer questions about what they've seen. For more advanced students, it's a great tool to use that keeps them interested and creates a wonderful environment for speaking English on a very "real" level. It's a great experience for me to see this....when they discuss issues in English. Sometimes I don't think they even realize how very adequately they are using their English skills.
So my "birthday weekend" is just getting started so stay tuned. Also, know that (with apologies to all my past employers) this is probably the first job I've had that I can say I LOVE! It goes without saying how hard it's going to be for me to leave these kids. As arrogant as it may sound.....my wish for them is that they find an equally crazy American to continue their English lessons! Then again.....that might be a little hard! ha LL in China, T.